WTF Archive

Sunday, December 6, 2009

WTF: You're slipping away from me and I just don't know how to hold on anymore. I hate long distance!


4 comments:

  1. AnonymousDecember 6, 2009 at 3:17 PM

    I know what you're going through, OP. Seeing each other a couple days or weekends each month is not enough, but I couldn't even imagine living with the alternative.

    The slipping away may just be bound to happen - when in new places, you will both meet new people. And I know it's hard to tell what's really going on all the time; it's always just best to ask him/her.

    ReplyDelete
  2. AnonymousDecember 6, 2009 at 6:04 PM

    I'm in the same situation here. not sure what your exact situation is but all i know is the opposite co-op terms makes things very difficult at times. If you feel like the two of you are slipping appart you need to talk about it... see what there is you can do to keep things interesing.

    ReplyDelete
  3. AnonymousDecember 6, 2009 at 6:07 PM

    long distance is killing me. My bf's on another continent.. and I don't even know if I'll see him again. We're not on, we're not off... we talk, he still says he loves me. I can't handle this! And there is no possible way I can see him any time soon. OH, and there's no way I want to break up with him. I know he's the right guy for me...he's just not right here.

    SO I can definitely relate.

    ReplyDelete
  4. AnonymousDecember 7, 2009 at 6:29 PM

    I had the same problem with the poster above, only it was my gf on another continent. I don't know if I will ever see her again. I decided as this was the case it would be better to just break it off rather than dragging myself and her through the pain that is a long distance relationship (yes I had previous experience). She apparently did not like the idea and hasn't spoken to me since (it has been 3 months since we broke up) because she says she is not over me and it would hurt too much to talk to me. So, I wouldn't advise anybody to take the path I did. It would however be better if you have a talk about where the relationship is heading and act accordingly.
    Also, I have a serious need to talk to my ex-gf but because I told her I wouldn't contact her till she was ready to talk to me I have not even tried to do so. She has emailed me a couple of times telling me what is going on with her but she asked me not to reply. If anyone has any advice for me I would appreciate it!

    ReplyDelete

Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom)