WTF Archive

Saturday, December 19, 2009

WTF: I'm pretty sure I'm more of a guy then any guy I've ever dated, and I'm a chick. I mean seriously, I have feelings an all, but that doesn't mean I wanna talk about them all the time.


14 comments:

  1. Stop dating emokids and your problem will be solved.

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  2. To be fair, the only place it is (somewhat) socially acceptable for a guy to talk about his feelings is with his girlfriend.

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  3. OP here.
    @ 10:14.
    Yeah I get that.
    But not when all he's talking about are his feelings about our relationship.
    Like, seriously.
    Grow a pair.

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  4. Hey OP I dont like to talk about feelings, well I don't like to talk in general, but I like to express feelings.

    So would you be cool with a guy who DID more than he TALKED? I mean to show the appreciation/whatever

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  5. OP here.
    Expressing feelings is what I go for.
    Little things that show that you care.
    But if the guy just wants to talk all the time, I'm peacing.
    Always.

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  6. OP, I completely understand. I had the most sensitive/emotional guy who just wanted to talk about our relationship/feelings. I mean, COME ON! I, for once would like to be the girl in the relationship. And I know people will say "gender has nothing to do with it" but you know what i mean!!!

    It gets so fucking frustrating. Just shut the fuck up and enjoy it. No talk needed.

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  7. OP, I'm curious as to whether on not you represent a lot of girls on this.

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  8. 1:08: No, she does not.

    OP has a point that if it's to excess, then it's annoying. BUT that doesn't mean every girl wants you to lock up your feelings. Again, I EMPHASIZE TO EXCESS! :P

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  9. Maybe guys should stop dating you.

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  10. have you ever thought that maybe its you who are uncomfortable with talking about your feelings?

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  11. guys who talk excessively about their feelings IS annoying. but i only know of one guy who does that.

    i'm guessing that girls who find guys talking about their feelings of the relationship all the time, annoying, probably don't view the relationship as seriously as the guy

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  12. ^ or, the guy is a completely insecure baby who needs constant reassurance that the girl loves him, that he's good enough, that he's more than good... that he is the best fucking thing to happen to her. I've had a guy who talked about feelings excessively and fished for compliments all in one lovely package. LOL

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  13. Next time you ask if you look fat in those pants I hope he tells the truth

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