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Tuesday, December 1, 2009

WTF: Do guys like girls who take the initiative? If in general the answer is no, how can a girl get the guy she wants??


12 comments:

  1. AnonymousDecember 1, 2009 at 1:40 PM

    we exist. this isn't true of all guys, so good luck on your search.

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  2. AnonymousDecember 1, 2009 at 1:45 PM

    the overgeneralized answer is no. I don't think most guys would mind.


    I don't and it's certainly necessary in a lot of cases.

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  3. AnonymousDecember 1, 2009 at 1:53 PM

    IF you're attractive and no one is asking you out, then it's because they think you're out of their league

    If you aren't very good looking then it is because they don't find you attractive

    I would personally love it if a hot girl asked me to hangout or something... not so much if she wasn't very good looking... so ask a guy out if you think they'd say yes otherwise don't risk it

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  4. AnonymousDecember 1, 2009 at 2:06 PM

    I think it's great when girls take the initiative. I wish more would. Unconsumated crushes make Baby Jesus cry.

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  5. AnonymousDecember 1, 2009 at 3:32 PM

    yea girls need to ask more guys out.

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  6. AnonymousDecember 1, 2009 at 4:29 PM

    yessssssssssssssssssssssssss. just jump on me. especially if i'm drunk. if i'm into it i'll call you tomorrow.

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  7. AnonymousDecember 1, 2009 at 4:34 PM

    how is this supposed to help girls? we can approach a guy if we are hot. but not if we're not hot. first of all, if we were hot, there wouldn't really be much need for us to do the asking out, would we? second, if we think we're attractive but we ask someone out and it turns out they don't think we're attractive, then we're screwed too. jesus.

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  8. AnonymousDecember 1, 2009 at 4:47 PM

    It's the same as when a guy asks out a girl. If the girl is into him, she'll say yes. Same with your man.
    As for whether or not guys like this: some do, some don't. If he does, great. If not, he's probably not going to run. He'll probably start taking more initiative with you so he still feels like he's the pants.
    Again, that's if he's into you in the first place. Someone's got to take that risk.

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  9. AnonymousDecember 1, 2009 at 5:16 PM

    don't listen to what the person said about looks. To me anyways, it doesn't really matter as long as there is something there that makes him like you then you should go for it!

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  10. AnonymousDecember 1, 2009 at 6:25 PM

    4:47 has got it right...

    and comeon girls.. if some nasty looking guy came up to you and asked you out would you say yes?

    so if you look nasty then people won't want you to make a move...

    like i have no problem approaching girls (given the right circumstance)... so if i want to ask them to hangout or whatever i do it... if someone i wouldn't ask out asks me to do something, and they're alright i would appreciate the gesture... but if i wouldn't ask them then i wouldn't like it that they asked me...

    what i mean is, being the person that initiates does not hold any value... it doesn't change whether or not someone is datable

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  11. AnonymousDecember 2, 2009 at 8:15 PM

    Too many girls play "hard to get", so guys have no clue that they're interested, and give up. Drop some damn obvious hints.

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  12. AnonymousDecember 3, 2009 at 5:23 PM

    I'd like a girl to come up and say hi to me, as long as she's not overly enthusiastic. It lets me know she's interested.

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