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Thursday, December 3, 2009

WTF: I am going through a very difficult decision... I want to take this girl i know out on a date, but i have a girlfriend... the problem arises where as i know i'm going to break up with my girlfriend in a month (i'm putting it off till after finals), but it still wouldn't be a very nice thing to do and i'd feel pretty guilty


14 comments:

  1. AnonymousDecember 3, 2009 at 11:42 PM

    you feel guilty b/c you know it's wrong man. dont' do it. It's a slippery slide down.

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  2. AnonymousDecember 3, 2009 at 11:55 PM

    I know what you're going through, on the other side of the coin. Sometimes I'll meet this great guy, we're into each other, but he has a girlfriend (they all do). Neither of us do anything about it, or at least, I don't, because if he was that great of a guy, he wouldn't go for anyone while seeing someone. So, he's a great guy, I respect him, but also, I won't be able to respect him or myself if we began anything while he was still involved. It's a harsh Catch-22. Better wait till you're free in every way possible.

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  3. AnonymousDecember 4, 2009 at 12:09 AM

    OP here, and i know it's a slipery slope... but in less than a month i'm going away on coop, and I don't want this girl to forget me... i know i'm going to be breaking up with my girlfriend (we don't get along anymore) but i didn't want to put that stress on her right before finals

    I guess if i go just to hang out, theres no harm in that right?

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  4. AnonymousDecember 4, 2009 at 12:17 AM

    11:55 here. i think hanging out is fine. be friends, but don't put any moves - subtle or not - on her. i'm sure she'll appreciate it. you sound like a thoughtful guy for not wanting to screw your gf up before finals.

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  5. AnonymousDecember 4, 2009 at 12:21 AM

    yea don't do it bro - take the high road. Honestly, after you break up with your current girlfriend, you can always make an effort to meet up with your co-op girl.

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  6. AnonymousDecember 4, 2009 at 12:24 AM

    I just hate cheaters.
    I brought this girl home one time and right as we're getting ready on the bed she says (i guess to make herself feel less guilty)"I have a boyfriend" - I just told her leave.

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  7. AnonymousDecember 4, 2009 at 12:29 AM

    i'm gonna quote how i met your mother:

    "a week, that's like a month in hot girl time"

    so 4 months? sorry man but even if you did take her on a date i think she'd forget about you. but it's fine to go and hangout, just don't get physical... on the plus side you'll get to know her better and if things go well maybe she'll remember you more as a person instead of just some guy

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  8. AnonymousDecember 4, 2009 at 12:40 AM

    OP here,

    after thinking about it for a while, i think i'm going to go for it... what if i really like this girl? i shouldn't put my life on hold because i don't want to distract my soon to be exgirlfriend before exams... i'm really not a bad guy, it's just bad timing... and i wouldn't classify this as cheating because i won't let it get physical

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  9. AnonymousDecember 4, 2009 at 12:46 AM

    wait... "what IF" you really like this girl? so you're willing to come off like an inconsiderate person (esp. to your gf) by moving on before you guys break up, for someone that you MIGHT really like?

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  10. AnonymousDecember 4, 2009 at 1:08 AM

    SOlution is simple. Break up now. why the heck areyou putting it off till after finals?? just do it today, now, and dont be bothered about it any longer

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  11. AnonymousDecember 4, 2009 at 1:12 AM

    I'm a dude and eff off it's still cheating.

    I would hold it off and yea give your girl the courtesy to do it after finals.

    I can see why you'd do it though.

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  12. AnonymousDecember 4, 2009 at 1:17 AM

    Yea man I'm a guy as well and I think it'd be a real dick move if you didn't break off with your girlfriend first.

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  13. AnonymousDecember 4, 2009 at 1:17 AM

    Don't listen to 1:08! you're right to wait till after finals!!

    That is a tough situation, I don't think anyone can really understand unless they were in your situation. But I would discontinue being physical with your current girlfriend though, because that will make you feel worse than hanging out with some girl

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  14. AnonymousDecember 4, 2009 at 1:59 AM

    damn you are greedy. if she is not interested in you... wham!

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