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Sunday, January 17, 2010

WTF: I know this is going to sound entirely lame, so don't hate... but I think I'm bi, and I don't know what to do about it.


8 comments:

  1. AnonymousJanuary 17, 2010 at 11:54 PM

    Don't do anything about it. Deal with it. It's a simple fact of life. If you genuinely feel attracted to both genders - go for it. Stick with the opposite gender if that's what makes you happy. Or go the other way. I don't believe that bisexuals are just "greedy" or use it as way to hide their homosexuality.

    At the end of the day, you'll be who you are whether people like it or not. Chances are most people won't care either way.

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  2. AnonymousJanuary 18, 2010 at 12:01 AM

    are you a guy or a girl?

    if you are a girl, what is your phone number?

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  3. AnonymousJanuary 18, 2010 at 12:34 AM

    I'm a girl, but I'm not giving out my number over the internet... Sorry.

    11:54, thanks for the advice. It's just been crazy trying to figure it out.. I'm stalling on telling my friends and family for as long as I can. I don't even wanna think about how my family will take it (they're insanely christian).

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  4. AnonymousJanuary 18, 2010 at 12:36 AM

    If you are a guy, let's get a beer and talk this out.

    It's a scary thing, and you don't have to do it alone. GLOW is an amazing resource for people such as yourself. They have a lot of anonymous services you can take advantage of to help talk things out.

    But my advice as a Bi guy is just roll with it. Don't let anyone tell you who you are because only you know that, and sometimes it's hard to figure out. Have fun. Be safe.

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  5. AnonymousJanuary 18, 2010 at 2:05 AM

    People are generally pretty good about people being strait or gay, but don't know how to react when told someone is bisexual. Especially for males.

    I honestly believe that most women are secretly bisexual (how many girls haven't at least made out with other girls), so if you told me, I wouldn't even flinch.

    Also guys probably like that for the threesome potential.

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  6. AnonymousJanuary 18, 2010 at 2:24 PM

    You don't need to do anything about it. You like who you like, and that's that.

    I'm bi in that the thought of being with other girls makes me hot. But I could never 'date' or be in a relationship with a girl - I only think about guys that way. I just wouldn't mind a few girl-on-girl one night stands ;)

    Anyway. My point is, everyone's different, and everyone is weird, so whatever you've got going on is probably not as strange as you think it is.

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  7. AnonymousJanuary 18, 2010 at 10:44 PM

    2:24pm, i was about to ask a thing about whether or not i'm bi if i like lesbian porn. but you answered my question - i wouldn't go into a relationship with a girl.

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  8. AnonymousJanuary 19, 2010 at 10:03 AM

    10:44, I think a lot of women are like that... bisexual but heteroemotional. I'm a girl and I wouldn't mind a female piece on the side, but women are way too full of crazy for me to date, frankly.

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